Things To Say & Not To Say To Escorts

Worried about saying the wrong thing and completely killing the vibe with an escort? You’re not alone. First impressions matter, and when nerves kick in, it’s easy to blurt out something awkward without meaning to. So, we thought we'd put together a little list of go-to things to say that our London escorts will appreciate, as well as things to avoid altogether.

✅ “You're beautiful”

It might sound basic, but this one packs a punch. Escorts spend a lot of time getting ready for appointments, hair, makeup, outfits, all tailored to look amazing for you. A sincere compliment like “You’re beautiful” goes a long way. Don’t assume she hears it all the time.

❌ “What happened to make you choose this line of work?”

Nope. Just don’t. That question isn’t just invasive, it carries judgment, even if you don’t mean it that way. Escorts aren’t sitting around waiting to unpack their life story for strangers.

✅ “Do you have any hobbies?”

A genuine question that shows interest in her as a person? Perfect. Many escorts enjoy chatting about their interests, whether it’s travel, music, fitness, or something totally unexpected. It’s a great way to quickly build rapport with an escort and make her feel more comfortable from the outset.

❌ “Are you being forced?”

It might seem like a caring question, but it’s actually one of the worst things you can ask. Most escorts choose this work because they enjoy it, and assuming they’re not doing it willingly isn’t just wrong, it’s insulting.

✅ “Can I get you anything?”

Even something as simple as offering a drink or asking if she’s comfortable goes a long way. It shows you’re considerate and tuned in, not just there for what you want. 

❌ “Isn’t it dangerous?”

Another classic that’s best left unsaid. Escorts are capable adults who know how to look after themselves. This question just reinforces tired stereotypes and puts them on the defensive.

✅ “I love your outfit”

Complimenting her outfit is thoughtful and personal. Escorts often plan their look with you in mind, it’s a detail that deserves recognition. Telling her she looks great not only boosts her confidence, but also shows that you notice and appreciate the effort.

❌ “Why don’t you get a real job?”

Major red flag. Escorting is a real job. It takes people skills, organisation, emotional intelligence, and more. If you’ve booked someone, don’t insult the very thing that brought you together.

✅ “You're easy to talk to”

This one’s a gem. Being told you're easy to talk to feels good in any line of work, but especially in escorting. It means she’s creating a comfortable, enjoyable experience, which is exactly what most escorts aim for. 

❌ “Would you ever date a client?”

Don’t blur the lines. Escorts are offering a professional service, not dating advice. This question can come off as clingy and maybe even a little creepy. Enjoy the time you’ve booked, and keep expectations realistic and clear.

✅ “I'll be sure to leave you a great review”

Yes! Do this. Positive reviews aren’t just good for their ego, they’re great for business. A thoughtful review helps other clients feel confident, boosts her visibility, and shows you valued the experience. It’s the simplest way to say thank you and make a real difference.

❌ “How many guys do you see a day?”

Would you ask your dentist how many mouths he’s poked into that day? Exactly. It's not relevant, it’s not polite, and it’s certainly not your business. Keep the conversation focused on your time together.

The Bottom Line

When it comes down to it, talking to escorts is like talking to anyone you would go on a date with. Treat them with kindness, be respectful, don't be demanding, try to make them as comfortable as possible, and you’ll both have an amazing time.