Incall or Outcall Service: Which is Best?

If you’ve never booked an escort before (or even if you have), one of the first questions that comes to mind is whether to choose an incall or an outcall service.

It sounds quite simple on paper, right? Either you go to her, or she comes to you. Well, in reality, the choice you make can shape the entire experience. Some clients feel more relaxed with one option, while others quickly realise the other suits them far better.

We here at Crush Escorts are here to explain the key differences between incall and outcall bookings, including the upsides and downsides of each. That way, you can make a decision that actually fits your situation... because we want your experience with one of our gorgeous London escorts to be the best it can be. 

Contents:

• What’s the Difference Between Incall and Outcall?
• When an Incall Makes More Sense
• When an Outcall Is the Better Option
• Incall vs Outcall
• How to Decide What’s Right for You

What’s the Difference Between Incall and Outcall?

As we previously mentioned, the difference between the two options is simple: with an incall, you go to the escort; with an outcall, she comes to you.

An incall means meeting the escort in a place she already uses for bookings. She knows the space, knows how appointments usually run there, and everything she needs is already set up. For many clients, especially first-timers and those with 'kinkier' requests, that makes things feel more straightforward once they arrive.

An outcall means the escort travels to your location, usually your home, a serviced apartment, or one of the many escort-friendly hotels in London. It's also the option for those of you who want to meet an escort at a public venue, whether for a few drinks together or a dinner date. That gives you more control over where the booking takes place, but it also means factoring in travel time, availability, and sometimes restrictions on locations.

Neither option is better than the other, but they do suit different situations. Some spontaneous clients prefer to go to the escort and keep things simple. Others would rather stay put and have the escort come to them. What matters is choosing the option that fits around your plans and specific needs. 

When an Incall Makes More Sense

Incalls tend to work best for those who want a little more privacy, far from the prying eyes of their neighbours or other hotel guests. 

Also, because you’re meeting the escort in her own space, she already knows how everything runs. There’s no uncertainty about the setting, no waiting for someone to arrive, and no need to coordinate travel windows. For first-time clients, this can remove a lot of nerves, because the escort is already relaxed and in control of the environment from the moment you arrive.

Another thing some clients don’t realise at first is that incall locations are often set up with the booking in mind. This can include things like access to a shower, towels, drinks, or other small comforts that make the experience feel smoother once you’re there. And of course, this also means a wide selection of toys and costumes for those who wish to meet a dominatrix escort. 

Incalls are also usually more affordable. You’re paying for the time together, rather than covering travel, taxis, or lost availability while the escort is on the move. This can make incalls a sensible option if you’re booking for a shorter session or working to a specific budget.

The downside is that you do have to travel, and you don’t get to choose the setting. You’re stepping into someone else’s space, which means less flexibility around atmosphere, music, lighting, or timing. Some clients are completely comfortable with that; others find they prefer having more control.

When an Outcall Is the Better Option

Outcalls are usually chosen for comfort and convenience.

If you’re staying in a hotel, don’t know the area well, or simply don’t want the stress of travelling before a booking, having the escort come to you can make the entire experience feel more relaxed. You can arrive early, settle in, maybe even have a shower, and take your time before the date begins.

Outcalls can also be more flexible in how the booking starts. Some clients prefer meeting in a public venue first, such as a bar or restaurant, before heading back to a hotel together. This can suit nights out with a party girl escort, dinner dates or longer bookings with one of our GFE companions.

The trade-off is cost and planning. Outcalls are priced higher because the escort is giving up time to travel and may be limiting how many bookings she can take that day. Availability can also be tighter, especially at short notice, and some locations may be off-limits depending on distance or timing.

If privacy matters to you, if you want to stay in your own space, or if you’re booking for a longer session where comfort and flexibility are important, an outcall is often worth the extra expense.

If it's your first time meeting an outcall escort, read our helpful guide on how to prepare for a hotel date. 

Incall vs Outcall

This quick comparison sums up the practical differences between the two options.

How to Decide What’s Right for You

If you’re unsure which option to choose, don't worry... you're certainly not the first to feel this way. Most clients don’t really know what they prefer until they’ve booked at least once.

If travelling doesn’t bother you and you want something simple and usually more affordable, an incall is often the easiest place to start. If privacy matters more, or you like the idea of staying in your own space (or even meeting first for a drink or dinner), then an outcall is usually the better fit.

At Crush Escorts, you’ll find companions who offer incalls, outcalls, or both. When you’re ready, browse our full lineup of the sexy escorts London has to offer, and choose the option that feels right for you.